Brain-based parent coach, psychologist, and author; focuses on teen autonomy, resistance, and parent–teen communication.
Resistance escalates when teens feel misunderstood. Not just when they are corrected. Parental understanding lowers defenses faster than consequences ever will.
Parents often interpret resistance as disrespect. But a lot of teens are actually resisting pressure. ⤵️
If every conversation with your teen turns into an argument… Pause and ask yourself: ⤵️
One of the biggest shifts parents can make ⤵️ Stop asking: "Why are they acting like this?" Start asking: "What problem are they trying to solve?"
When teens push back, parents push harder. More rules. More consequences. More lectures. What's left? A power struggle. Resistance isn’t solved with pressure.