Dr. Kim Van Dusen (The Parentologist)
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PsyD, LMFT, RPT; author of “Parenting Through Play”; practical therapy- and play-based guidance for parents and clinicians.
Social•May 11, 2026
Kids Thrive on Meaningful Moments, Not Constant Supervision
Children don’t need perfectly present parents every second of the day—they need connected moments that make them feel safe, seen, and loved.
By Dr. Kim Van Dusen (The Parentologist)
Social•Apr 28, 2026
Seeing Your Child Rejected Hurts More Than Your Own
What do you think is harder: when you are rejected or when you witness your child being rejected?
By Dr. Kim Van Dusen (The Parentologist)
Social•Mar 16, 2026
Trust and Safety Precede Discipline in Child Development
A child needs trust and safety first to form a strong bond and connection before a parent can expect them to be regulated, behave and cooperate to requests, and respect them.
By Dr. Kim Van Dusen (The Parentologist)
Social•Feb 27, 2026
Use a Suitcase Check‑in to Help Children Unpack Emotions
Some children explode. Some implode. The quiet ones still need help unpacking. Try the “suitcase check-in” this week and notice what shifts.
By Dr. Kim Van Dusen (The Parentologist)