Lisa Howe, MSW (Becoming Peaceful)
Social worker and parenting coach; science-based, empathetic frameworks for limits-with-connection and executive function realities.
ADHD Kids Need Daily Support, Not Punishment
I recently responded to a post here that has since been deleted and think it might benefit others. The post described a 14 year old being punished for not being able to complete his school work without support. The child has ADHD. In my ten years as a parenting coach, the number one thing I see with parents of kids with ADHD is a lack of understanding of how ADHD brains work. My comment: I wonder how much scaffolding and support he has received. A kid that age with ADHD needs daily support.
Every Day Brings Unpredictable Moments in Hospice Social Work
The role of a hospice social worker is different every single day. So far this week: Monday: I met a patient who believes the earth is flat. (Before you ask, no brain cancer or mets, just some unique ideas.) Tuesday: I met...
Select Your Driver Profile to Avoid Daily Hassles
I recently got a new car. Each driver has a profile. If you get in and start driving without making sure that your profile is selected, then all sorts of annoying things happen. Your seat and mirrors aren't in the...
Acceptance Might Be the Solution to All Problems
Me: "Sounds like you're in a real place of acceptance about dying." 83 year old man: "What would be the alternative?" What if he's right and acceptance really is the answer to most, if not all, of my problems...
Morning Sun Walk Redefines Your Entire Day
I regret to inform you that starting the day with a long walk outside in the sun changes everything.
All-Caps Alerts Signal Kids' Serious Distress
My 8th grader has a SyncKids watch. It's a smart-ish device which allows for them to call selected people and vice versa. For texting, they can send canned messages like, "Where are you?" as well as voice memos. It has...