Things I Wish Someone Told Me at 22
The author reflects on how, at 22, they let others dictate their identity, chasing social validation and mimicking dominant personalities. They warn that outsourcing self‑definition to influencers or louder peers erodes confidence and leads to a performance‑driven life. Authentic confidence, they argue, is rooted in kindness, presence, and self‑selection rather than dominance. The piece concludes that choosing oneself first, embracing unglamorous work, and staying grounded attract genuine opportunities.
Pray For The Bear
The post reframes the classic “fight the bear” mentality through a feminine lens, arguing that composed confidence, discipline, and emotional intelligence replace brute aggression. The author shares personal experience of building a career without safety nets, emphasizing self‑trust and consistent...