Video•Apr 19, 2026
Slapping 3yo Toddlers Cause of Trauma?
The video examines Dr. Gabor Maté’s claim that a single month of abandonment in infancy can dictate behavior 70 years later, using a personal story of a father’s anger triggered by a text from his wife.
It outlines Maté’s theory that traumatic events are encoded in the nervous system, especially the amygdala, allowing non‑conscious recall that influences adult reactions. It also presents data on memory formation, noting that explicit autobiographical memories typically emerge after age two.
The narrator cites examples—a 3‑year‑old slapped for not singing “Happy Birthday” and an infant left with a stranger—to illustrate how early wounds manifest as anger or emotional distance. He also references the book “The Body Keeps the Score” as a framework for somatic trauma storage.
The critique suggests Maté’s conclusions may overstate the precision of linking a specific infant episode to later behavior, urging viewers to consider both neurobiological and developmental evidence when evaluating trauma narratives.
