A Parade of Scarves: Notes on Fluidity and the Diaspora
Max Pasakorn, a Thai‑born queer writer raised in Singapore, reflects on his fluid identity through a vivid essay that weaves personal anecdotes, language, and the metaphor of scarfs. He describes navigating Mandarin, Thai, and English while moving between Bangkok’s club scene and Singapore’s disciplined culture. The piece highlights his 2 million‑monthly‑view social‑media presence and his work on a memoir about third‑culture experiences. Ultimately, Pasakorn argues that authentic nonfiction emerges when writers embrace the in‑between rather than forcing a single cultural label.
Stop Taking Advice From People Who Haven’t Done the Thing
The article warns that most people take advice from unqualified, confident voices, leading to costly missteps. It introduces the "Proof of Reps" framework, urging readers to verify whether advisors have actually performed the task in question. The author categorizes advice...
If It Still Hurts on Day Three, Quit Pretending You Are Fine
The article warns that chronic discomfort, often dismissed as mere fatigue, signals deeper burnout that accumulates when ignored. It introduces the Three‑Day Rule: if a feeling persists beyond 72 hours, it demands attention rather than repression. A five‑step framework—name, locate,...
The Hidden Addiction Destroying Your Self-Worth
The article reveals how social‑media platforms use variable‑reward loops to create a hidden addiction that erodes self‑worth, especially for founders and executives who constantly chase likes and comments. Each notification triggers a dopamine hit, tying confidence to external metrics and...
What 500 Articles About Singapore’s Top CEOs Actually Reveal
CARMA analyzed over 500 news pieces on Singapore’s ten most‑covered CEOs from October 2025 to January 2026, uncovering clear patterns in media exposure and response timing. The study shows that coverage spikes often lag behind negative events, amplifying reputational risk. A small...