How Mindfulness Builds Emotional Regulation in People with ADHD (with Mark Bertin, M.D.)

ADDitude Magazine
ADDitude MagazineMay 19, 2026

Why It Matters

Effective mindfulness equips ADHD individuals and their caregivers with tools to curb emotional volatility, enhancing overall functioning and supporting long‑term therapeutic success.

Key Takeaways

  • Mindfulness practice enhances emotional regulation in ADHD individuals.
  • Emotional dysregulation amplifies executive function challenges in ADHD.
  • Consistent realistic mindfulness beats perfectionist expectations that cause dropout.
  • Parents' stress reduction via mindfulness benefits whole family dynamics.
  • Integrating mindfulness early supports resilience across school, home, and medical plans.

Summary

The webinar, hosted by Attitude and led by developmental pediatrician Dr. Mark Burton, explored how mindfulness and contemplative practices can strengthen emotional regulation for people with ADHD. Burton framed ADHD as a disorder of executive function, emphasizing that emotional dysregulation is a core, often overlooked, component that fuels impulsivity and decision‑making difficulties.

Key insights included the link between chronic stress, heightened emotional reactivity, and reduced problem‑solving capacity. Burton highlighted Thomas Brown’s six‑part model of ADHD self‑management and argued that cultivating awareness—rather than striving for perfect focus—helps individuals recognize the "second arrow" of rumination that magnifies stress. He also stressed that self‑compassion and realistic, repeatable mindfulness routines are more sustainable than idealized meditation myths.

Illustrative anecdotes featured a family caught in a cycle of yelling when their child became reactive, underscoring how unmanaged emotions ripple through relationships. Burton described mindfulness as “awareness, not laser‑sharp focus,” and referenced his upcoming "Held and Whole" retreat, which blends nature‑based mindfulness with practical ADHD strategies.

The implications are clear: clinicians, educators, and parents should integrate modest, habit‑forming mindfulness exercises into treatment plans to boost resilience, improve adherence to behavioral interventions, and ultimately reduce the emotional volatility that hampers academic and social outcomes.

Original Description

In this hour-long webinar with ADDitude, Mark Bertin, M.D., explored the integration of mindfulness and contemplative practices with a proactive approach to physical health. Dr. Bertin highlighted how this combination establishes an emotional foundation that enhances ADHD care. This ADHD Experts webinar was originally broadcast on June 26, 2025.
Download the slides associated with this webinar here: https://www.additudemag.com/webinar/meditation-for-emotional-regulation-adhd/
6:00 ADHD is defined by difficulty with executive function
8:00 When people are overwhelmed with stress and emotional reactivity, it affects the people around you
9:00 Stress impacts cognitive function. "emotions are driving the bus quite often, whether we want them to or not"
15:00 Mindfulness may not be what you think
16:00 "Be a skeptic" - is this true?
17:00 Flight or Fight Response/ stress cycle:
18:00 pausing often, "small doses many times a day" so you can start acting with more clarity, "When we are settled, we will make better choices"
19:00 What mindfulness means (and doesn't)
22:00 Building mindful awareness - giving yourself permission to observe and notice what's happening without your typical habits
24:00 We can reject auto pilot and train ourselves to respond more intentionally
27:00 ADHD and emotion
29:00 building an emotional vocabulary changes how we interpret our emotions. name it to tame it
31:00 being aware of physical sensations in our body
34:00 after 8 week program of mindfulness, there was growth in parts of the brain responsible for regulation
36:00 RAIN: sitting, recognize and name it, allow it to be, investigate, nurture with self care
39:00 the chronic experience of the inner critic typical of ADHD plays a powerful role. Teh inner critic seems hard wired, but it's just another habit.
41:00 Benefits of Self Compassion Practice
43:00 Bertin leads a practice of self compassion
48:00 How do you make time for mindfulness?
50:00 Specific tips for building the habit - anchor to another habit, schedule it
51:00 Better to do a few minutes regularly than a big chunk of time every so often
52:00 mindfulness does NOT mean sitting still. "Walking meditation is awesome."
55:00 How to reframe boredom: "This is boring and that's okay"
57:00 How to help kids get invested/ interested in meditating
59:00 How to model mindfulness for kids?
Related Resources:
1. Free Download: Make Mindfulness Work for You
2. eBook: Mindfulness & Meditation for ADHD Symptoms
3. Read: 11 Strategies That Improve Emotional Control at School and Home
4. Read: Forget the Lotus Position: How to Meditate — ADHD Style
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