20 One‑Sentence Mantras to Instantly Refocus Your Day
Sometimes it takes one sentence to get back on track. Here are 20 that have saved my focus thousands of times. A few examples: "If a task isn't timeboxed on my calendar, it doesn't exist." "Multitasking taxes 40% of my day; I monotask with pride." "One tab, one task. That's my rule." "Attention is my scarcest asset. I choose to invest it intentionally." I keep all 20 of these handy as mantras. When I feel my attention slipping, I read one. Usually that's enough. I put the full set into a 1-page playbook you can download free here: https://t.co/AfGHThbsUc Enjoy.
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