Good Inside with Dr. Becky (Show website)

Is It True? If I Don’t Punish, I’m Permissive (with Myleik Teele)

In this episode of Good Inside, Dr. Becky and parenting expert Myleik Teele dissect the common belief that "if I don’t punish, I’m permissive." They explore how this mindset ties to power dynamics, fear, and cultural expectations, especially for Black families who feel heightened safety concerns. Teele emphasizes that punishment often serves parents’ need to feel in control rather than truly teaching children, and both hosts suggest alternative strategies that focus on emotional regulation and collaborative problem‑solving. The conversation highlights the importance of re‑examining entrenched parenting myths to foster healthier parent‑child relationships.