
In this episode, host interviews grief writer and coach Jason McKenzie, who shares his personal journey through the suicide of his first wife and the later death of his daughter, and how those losses led him to alcoholism and eventually sobriety. McKenzie explains how men often numb grief with self‑destructive habits and how uncovering hidden self‑protective beliefs can unlock authentic mourning. He describes his work with fathers and business owners, using coaching techniques that surface unconscious assumptions and test new behaviors to break grief‑driven patterns. The conversation highlights the importance of honoring lost loved ones while still living fully, and offers practical insight into turning grief into purposeful action.

The author, still mourning his wife and daughter, confronts a sudden, explosive reaction to a terse message from his brother, exposing lingering guilt and anger. A somatic experiencing therapist guides him through shadow work, revealing that the hatred he felt...

The post argues that the painful behaviors men exhibit after a loss are driven more by long‑standing belief systems than by the grief itself. These entrenched assumptions—such as the need to appear strong or the fear of harming loved ones—are...