Blog•Mar 20, 2026
My Kids Didn't Get the Same Version of Me, and That's Okay
The author reflects on a reader’s question about guilt over giving different experiences to each child, acknowledging that siblings inevitably receive varied versions of parenting. Citing Gabor Mate, she explains that no two children have identical parents because each child perceives parenting uniquely. Drawing from her own upbringing and motherhood, she illustrates how financial stability, parental maturity, and life lessons shape distinct parental approaches across generations. Ultimately, she argues that recognizing these differences eases guilt and highlights the value of each child’s unique experience.
