Why You're Still Using Social Media (Even If You Want to Stop) with Dr. Cass Sunstein

The Happiness Lab

Why You're Still Using Social Media (Even If You Want to Stop) with Dr. Cass Sunstein

The Happiness LabMar 23, 2026

Why It Matters

Understanding product traps reveals why many Americans feel compelled to stay on social media even when they want to quit, shedding light on hidden psychological costs that affect mental health and productivity. Recognizing these mechanisms empowers listeners to make more intentional choices about technology use and informs policymakers and designers about the ethical implications of platform design.

Key Takeaways

  • Product trap: using goods you’d rather avoid
  • Social media creates negative non‑user externalities
  • FOMO and loss aversion drive platform addiction
  • Willingness‑to‑pay reveals true utility of products
  • Companies exploit visibility to lock in users

Pulse Analysis

The 2026 World Happiness Report, co‑authored by Harvard’s Cass Sunstein, introduces the term “product trap” to explain why millions stay glued to platforms they secretly dislike. A product trap occurs when a good’s value depends on others’ participation, creating a social cost for non‑use. Social media, AI‑assisted cheat tools, and even holiday customs fit this pattern, forcing consumers to adopt behaviors that lower their overall utility—what economists call well‑being. Sunstein’s insight bridges behavioral science and public policy, showing that technology’s ecological impact reshapes choices far beyond simple convenience.

The trap’s power stems from loss aversion and fear‑of‑missing‑out. When a platform’s network grows, not joining feels like a loss, triggering anxiety and a perceived decline in social standing. Sunstein cites examples from college students who use AI essay generators simply because peers do, and holiday traditions like “Elf on the Shelf” that compel participation to avoid embarrassment. These negative non‑user externalities lower personal happiness while inflating the product’s perceived utility. Measuring willingness‑to‑pay—say $15 for a book versus $50 for a blender—reveals how much extra value users assign solely to staying connected.

For businesses, product traps are a lucrative acquisition strategy. By making usage visible—likes, scores, shared stats—companies amplify the social cost of opting out, turning network effects into a lock‑in mechanism. Sunstein warns that such designs can harm consumer welfare, prompting regulators to scrutinize willingness‑to‑pay data and non‑user externalities. Leaders can mitigate harm by offering transparent opt‑out pathways, reducing FOMO cues, and designing products whose utility does not depend on forced conformity. Understanding the product trap framework equips executives and policymakers to balance growth ambitions with ethical responsibility, ultimately fostering healthier digital ecosystems.

Episode Description

Why is social media so hard to quit? We waste hours scrolling, feel worse when we log off, and still find ourselves going back for more.

Dr. Laurie sits down with Dr. Cass Sunstein, co-author of (00:00:57) Nudge, to explore a new concept from the 2026 World Happiness Report: the “product trap.” Together, they unpack why we keep returning to platforms that make us unhappy — and what it might take to finally break free.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Technopoly: The Surrender of Culture to Technology

Nudge: Improving Decisions About Health, Wealth, and Happiness

“World Happiness Report 2026”

“The Problem of Social Cost”

“Valuing Facebook”

“The Welfare Effects of Social Media”

“When Product Markets Become Collective Traps: The Case of Social Media”

“Libertarian Paternalism Is Not an Oxymoron”

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