Today's Fatherhood Pulse

Parents seek safest phones for kids amid rising online risks
Parents are increasingly worried that children encounter harmful online content, driving a surge in demand for child‑friendly mobile devices. TechRadar’s guide evaluates the safest options, from feature‑only dumbphones to hybrid devices with robust parental controls and fully‑featured smartphones equipped with built‑in restrictions.

Dad Brain: How Fatherhood Remakes Men's Minds
Recent research confirms that fatherhood triggers a cascade of hormonal and neural changes similar to those experienced by mothers. Men show drops in testosterone and vasopressin, while oxytocin and prolactin rise as they engage in infant care, even before birth. Brain imaging reveals rewiring in social‑cognitive regions, a transformation likened to a second adolescence. These biological shifts correlate with higher paternal involvement, better maternal mental health, and improved child cardiovascular outcomes.
Trust Fuels Your Daughter's Journey to Independence
Supporting your daughter’s independence starts with trust. 🎧 Hear more in this episode: https://t.co/c39rpq5ZqO #ParentingJourney

Marriage Resurgence Ends Decades-Long Rise in Single Motherhood
More evidence in support of my @TheAtlantic argument that--for kids--marriage increasingly grounds family life. IOW, the seemingly relentless rise in single motherhood since the 1960s is over. 👇🏽 https://t.co/gawAcfptrA
Shohei Ohtani Balances Six‑Inning 10‑K Pitch with One‑Year‑Old Daughter’s Growing Presence
Shohei Ohtani delivered a six‑inning, 10‑strikeout performance for the Los Angeles Dodgers and used the post‑game interview to discuss his nearly‑one‑year‑old daughter. The two‑way star weighed the difficulty of staying present for his child against the team’s strategic shift to...
Mormon Culture Instills Lasting Optimism and Community Values
How do you replicate the social virtues of Mormons without Mormonism? Maybe you can't. Or maybe: two parent households, zero drugs/alcohol, intense focus on community life/service, a respect for lawn maintenance, family board game night, aversion to dark/mean-spirited media...

Six‑year‑
My 6 yr old not satisfied with a verbal agreement (swear we didn't put him up to this) https://t.co/eZiWETKn86
Tech Columnist Urges Dads to Swap Coding Lessons for ‘Intent Architecture’ AI Roadmap
Amanda Caswell, AI editor at Tom’s Guide, says the decade‑long push to teach children to code is losing relevance. She proposes a new “Intent Architecture” curriculum that focuses on AI orchestration, targeting dads who want to future‑proof their kids’ education.
Kim Gura Video‑Calls Teen Daughter on Live TV, Showcasing Modern Fatherhood
During the April 16 broadcast of tvN STORY’s “Parenting Intern,” comedian‑host Kim Gura placed a live video call with his six‑year‑old daughter on air, using the segment to model an engaged, tech‑savvy dad. The moment sparked conversation about how Korean...

4 Steps to Take After Buying Your Teen’s First Car
Parents who purchase a teen’s first car face a mix of excitement and anxiety. The article outlines four post‑purchase steps: securing appropriate insurance, adding safety or tech upgrades, reviewing the owner’s manual together, and educating the teen on ongoing car‑related...

How to Disciple Your Kids Through Every Stage of Parenting
Rich Griffith, a single father of three adopted teens and associate professor of Youth and Multi‑generational Ministry, joins Focus on the Family to discuss how parents can intentionally disciple children at every developmental stage. He argues that many families defer...

You Choose the Parent You Want to Be
You get to decide what kind of parent you want to be. ( cc @joshkrameryoga )

5 Things That Happen When You Get Stretched as a Dad
A former NFL player reflects on how stepping out of his comfort zone for his son transformed his outlook on fatherhood. By attending a Buffalo Bills game—a former rival—he discovered five key shifts: letting his child dream, sharing new experiences,...
North Carolina Father of Three Faces Stage 4 Colon Cancer, GoFundMe Raises $10.5K
Zachary Whitfield, a 32‑year‑old machine‑operator and father of three in Wilson, North Carolina, was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer and had his planned colon‑removal surgery postponed after scans showed the disease had spread. A GoFundMe campaign he launched has raised...
Parenting: Prioritize Children’s Growth Over Self‑Interest
My wife and I, our whole job is to provide, to protect, to. love, to facilitate....It's to find out who our children are, find out their likes and their dislikes, and try to help them through life, to find themselves,...

Friday Five 607
The latest Friday Five roundup highlights five distinct stories shaping family dynamics and social trends. Brookings Institution will host a virtual event on April 27 discussing how AI reshapes child‑raising. Military Times reports a continued rise in suicide rates among...

How to Build Resilience and Accountability in Business
In this episode, Gary Vaynerchuk and his guest discuss how modern parenting has eroded resilience and accountability in boys, arguing that over‑protective attitudes, "eighth‑place trophies" and the suppression of healthy conflict leave young men ill‑prepared for real‑world challenges. They highlight...
WHO Calls for Health Systems to Boost Support for Parents and Caregivers
The World Health Organization, together with the Child Health Task Force and the ECD Action Network, announced a global webinar to explore how health services can embed evidence‑based support for parents and caregivers. The event will showcase practical tools and...

How To Thrive As Parents AND Partners | Therapist Eli Weinstein on Teamwork, Communication, Avoiding Resentment
In this episode, therapist Eli (Ellie) Weinstein discusses how couples can maintain a healthy partnership while navigating the chaos of parenting. He emphasizes that marriage often suffers when parents shift their focus entirely to the baby, leading to resentment and...
Kids Resist Sick Days, but Rest Wins
My daughter was mad that I kept her home with a fever. Then proceeded to barely move from her couch nest all day. And is still only “kind of” glad I kept her home. I can’t blame her. I also used to...
Dad Listening: The Key to Emotional Connection
Sometimes the best thing you can do as a dad is listen. This episode explores why that matters more than ever. 🎧 https://t.co/c39rpq5rBg #EmotionalIntelligence
Don’t Be One of These Parents
The Daily Dad urges parents to stop dismissing their children’s music preferences and instead engage with them. It cites a dad at a Taylor Swift concert who embraced his daughter’s taste after watching her documentary, highlighting the value of curiosity. By...

From Orchestra Bench to Graduation: Time Flies
My boy in the middle. At our orchestra concert. Can’t believe he’s graduating high school already man. Time passes quick. https://t.co/XNwtg4QgAT
True Test for Men: Balancing Money, Health, Family
Let’s talk real… What’s harder for a man today? Making money Staying in shape Leading a family Keeping a solid marriage Most men say money. I don’t. Because plenty of men make money… and still lose everything else. Grown man game is about handling ALL of it. Which one are you...
Experts Urge Parents to Say ‘No’ to Build Resilience and Boundaries
Leading child psychologists and parenting coaches told parents on April 15 that firm, consistent ‘no’ statements are essential for healthy development. They argue that over‑indulgence erodes resilience, fuels entitlement and blocks learning about disappointment.
Mature Kids Thrive with Balanced Autonomy and Guidance
Wise adults evaluate kids’ maturity, then give a needed balance of autonomy, responsibility, & information.

When Fathers Lose Access to Economic Opportunity, Families Carry the Cost
The article highlights how discussions of female‑headed households often omit fathers, arguing that limited economic opportunity for men fuels family instability. Census data shows roughly 15 million households led by women versus 6 million led by men in 2022. Transportation deficits, low‑wage...

Morgan Wallen's Dad Talks About His 'Sobriety' + Fatherhood
Morgan Wallen’s father, Tommy Wallen, praised his son’s sobriety and evolution into a devoted father during a recent SiriusXM interview. The singer has avoided bars since a high‑profile chair‑throwing incident in April 2024, focusing on hunting and family life. Wallen’s new...
Maxing Custodial Contributions Turns Son Into Future Millionaire
By far the most rewarding part about creating my own path in life is the ability to max out the annual contribution to my son's custodial account. By the time he inherits the account, he will be a millionaire thanks...

The 3 P Framework for Presence and Why Your Family's Wisdom Is Worth More Than Your Estate with Jefe...
In this episode, host Jon Broman and guest Jefe Greenheart explore the "3 P Framework" for parenting—Presence, Play, and Patience—and how it helps ambitious fathers stay connected to their families while pursuing creative and business goals. They discuss practical habits...

Reminder: That 'Bad Kid' You're Judging Could Very Well Be Autistic
The article highlights how autistic children are routinely judged for behaviors that deviate from neurotypical norms, such as avoiding eye contact or seeking sensory input. It underscores the emotional toll on both the children and their caregivers when society demands...
Prince Harry Urges Fathers to Seek Help and Raise “Upgraded” Children at Melbourne Event
Prince Harry addressed a Melbourne audience while launching a Movember report on fathers' mental health, warning that even the best upbringing leaves room for improvement. He urged fathers to view their children as “upgrades” and to break the stigma around...
CBS New York: 1 in 10 Fathers Face Treatable Postpartum Depression
CBS New York reports that one in ten new fathers experience paternal postpartum depression, a condition that experts say is both real and treatable. The story combines personal testimony from Todd Adest with clinical insight from Dr. Brett Biller, underscoring...
Break the Cycle: Stop Passing Shame to Children
Shame is inherited. It is passed along, often by parents, on the back of cutting remarks, unnecessary judgments, and thoughtless choices. It's up to you to not let your children inherit shame.
Milwaukee County Launches $5 M FORGE Fatherhood Program for 1,800 Young Dads
Milwaukee County Executive David Crowley and Board Chairwoman Marcelia Nicholson‑Bovell signed a resolution Tuesday to create the FORGE Fatherhood Project, a five‑year, $5 million federal‑grant program that will serve as many as 1,800 fathers ages 18‑24 with parenting workshops, relationship counseling...

First Crawl: A Beautiful Milestone Tonight
Such a beautiful moment when I got to see my baby crawl for the first time tonight
Will Answer Queries Once Baby Sleeps Through Night
I do appreciate folks nudging to see when I’ll open to queries again. The answer is “when the new baby sleeps through the night.” I largely read at night, and I gotta be present. Send good vibes that happens soon though cause...

Behavioral Parents, Not Gentle Parents, Build Self-Control
A new analysis argues that behavioral parenting—using kindness paired with clear consequences—outperforms gentle parenting in fostering children’s self‑control. The author cites decades of applied‑behavior research showing response‑cost techniques reliably reduce disruptive behavior and even match medication effects. Gentle parenting, while...

Men's Housework Share Nears Women's, Gap Shrinks Record
Contrary to the heteropessisism online, there's good news about egalitarian marriage in the latest time diary data: men's housework contributions are converging with women's and the gender gap is smaller than it's ever been. https://t.co/DSQYNyOMoy
Balancing Guidance and Freedom for Your Daughter
From guidance to independence—how do you support your daughter without holding her back? 🎧 Find out: https://t.co/c39rpq5rBg #GrowthMindset

Is Minecraft Safe for Kids?
Minecraft, a sandbox game popular with children as young as six, offers Creative and Survival modes that can be adjusted for difficulty and violence. Microsoft provides parental controls through linked accounts, allowing parents to restrict multiplayer access, chat, and friend...
Fathers' Presence in Labor Boosts Families, Not Equality
Chris Williamson asked me my views on paternity leave and a father's presence during labor. Overall, I want a pro-dad argument rather than a gender equality argument for fathering, so I told him how I truly felt: https://t.co/qSOXIsegtk
Make Chores Audible: Let Your Spouse Hear Effort
Doing things a little more loudly than they need to be done so your spouse can hear that you're doing things

On The Up: Napier Hairstyling Workshop Aiming to Bond Dads and Daughters
EIT hairdressing tutor Courtney Cook is launching a Daddy‑Daughter Hairstyling workshop in Napier on 26 April. The two‑and‑a‑half‑hour session costs $40 NZD (about $24 USD) and will accommodate eight dads with daughters aged 4‑10. Participants will learn three hairstyles—ponytails, braids and buns—while receiving...
Apologize, Stay Humble, and Keep Improving Family Bonds
All parents traumatize their children. People hurt people. We traumatize each other, sometimes unintentionally. The work isn't to be perfect, it's to apologize, to be humble, and to keep trying to do better. That's how you create a healthy family.
Ask Your Ideal Self: Decision Clarity Made Automatic
"I will coach my son's sports teams." - @SahilBloom When an opportunity shows itself to you, you ask: Would the person on that card say yes to this? Clarity on who you're trying to be makes daily decisions almost automatic. This...

What Does AI Actually Mean for My Kid?
The article advises parents to view AI as a tool that amplifies learning rather than a replacement for their children. It emphasizes cultivating critical thinking, curiosity, and human empathy—skills machines can’t replicate. Practical strategies include using AI together to fact‑check,...
Toddlers Prefer Formal Choices Over Simple Bedtime
Time to ask my toddler if he wants to affirmatively accept bedtime OR if he wants to go to sleep.
Kid's Hand Signal: The Force Protecting Us
Listen if you ever see me crossing a street and my son is holding up his hand to a waiting car with a hard stare: he's not being aggressive. He is using The Force to protect our lives. Be at...
Babies See in Grayscale, Not Invisible to You
If my baby can only see in black and white for the first 6 months…doesn’t that mean I’m invisible to her?
Teach Critical Thinking, Curiosity, Empathy Over AI Expertise
What Does AI Actually Mean for My Kid? A Practical Guide to Future-Proofing for the Modern Parent The TL;DR for Busy Parents AI isn’t going to replace your child, but it will change how they learn and work. The goal isn't...