How Parents Can Support Kids Facing RSD
Important note: This is a fictional story based off many kids and parent I’ve worked with that experience RSD. It’s not my personal story, but I wanted to tell it in first person to help parents see how they could support their kids who experience this.❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
Dad Listening: The Key to Emotional Connection
Sometimes the best thing you can do as a dad is listen. This episode explores why that matters more than ever. 🎧 https://t.co/c39rpq5rBg #EmotionalIntelligence
Universal Lullabies: Rhythm and Repetition Soothe Newborns
One of the ways I get my babies to sleep is by saying "jho jho, jho jho" over and over while patting their back rhythmically. I picked it up from watching my aunts and other Indian moms with their babies. I...
Give Kids a “Truth Book” When Myths End
Every few years we should give children the "little book of lies year X" where we come clean about the world. There is no Santa for example around age 10.
Future Goals Boost Resilience After Childhood Trauma
Why do kids need a future to aim for? Join me this week with neuroscientist David Sussillo (@SussilloDavid) as we discuss the interaction of childhood trauma and resilience. https://t.co/CQWGwHcJHg https://t.co/cALwHGwGcZ
Mothers Instantly Recognize Their Baby's Unique Cry Signature
It is wild how different each of my babies' cries are from each other. And how easily I can tell my baby's cry apart from any other baby. If I am out somewhere and a baby starts crying, I know...
Child Regression Signals Unspoken Emotional Strain
Signs your child is processing something hard: They suddenly get clingy again. They start wetting the bed again. They lose skills they had. Regression is their way of saying "something feels heavy right now."
Early Breastfeeding Pain Is Normal, Not Latch Failure
This is so true and nobody talks about it honestly. Breastfeeding hurts in the first two weeks for most women, even with a perfect latch. Your nipples are not used to that level of friction and suction and they need...
Psychologist's One Sentence to Defuse ADHD Arguments
A child psychologist trick: the first sentence to say when your ADHD child starts arguing
Quality Baby Carrier: Parenting's Most Valuable Investment
The best money I have ever spent as a parent is on high quality baby carriers. I have used my carriers thousands of times across three kids. It gets me through daily chores, walks outdoors, airports, witching hour and pretty much...
Balancing Guidance and Freedom for Your Daughter
From guidance to independence—how do you support your daughter without holding her back? 🎧 Find out: https://t.co/c39rpq5rBg #GrowthMindset
Mature Kids Thrive with Balanced Autonomy and Guidance
Wise adults evaluate kids’ maturity, then give a needed balance of autonomy, responsibility, & information.
Essential Home Care Checklist for Sick Kids and Adults
Chronically ill, acutely injured, and kids home sick checklist: ✅ Kids’ Breakfast made (& barely touched) ✅ Blanket+pillow nest on the couch ✅ Meds distributed (forgot mine until typing this in true ADHD fashion 😅) ✅ Water bottles filled ✅ Cane ✅ Heating pad ✅ Compression socks ✅...
Teach Babies Backward Stair Descent for Safer Independence
One of the first things I do once my babies are crawling confidently is teach them how to go down stairs backwards. I know a lot of parents have anxiety about babies and stairs, and I get it. But instead...
Teach Humility: Prioritize Character Over Sports Clout
This isn’t it. Let’s teach our kids humility because it will take them a whole lot further than ego ever will. Celebrating is one thing. Disrespecting opponents and the game is another. Youth sports used to be about development, fundamentals, and learning...
Cherishing Fleeting Moments Before Kids Grow Up
Aunty duties for two days. For two days I am in charge of their homework, tuition, training, playtime and dinner. One day, I’ll look back at this photo and instead of training bags, it will probably be their army bags....
Toddlers Prefer Formal Choices Over Simple Bedtime
Time to ask my toddler if he wants to affirmatively accept bedtime OR if he wants to go to sleep.
Breathe, Pause, and Cherish Quality Time with Teens
What's the answer when you're at war with your teen? Take slow breaths when you want to blow your fuse. Spend more quality time when you want to kick them out. Love The Teen You Have. https://www.amazon.com/author/dr.ann-louise_2025
Teaching Kids Too Well Leads to Literal Sun‑soaking
This morning my son asked why a man across the street was walking shirtless. I explained that the sun is good for you and he wants to soak in as much sun on his skin as possible. He was quiet. After his...
Let Go of Pressure; Kids Eat when They're Hungry
I remember when my son entered his picky eating phase around age 2 and how much it threw me off. This was a kid who ate everything. People at restaurants would stare and compliment how well he ate. He was...
Breastmilk Antibodies Teach Infant Gut Tolerance, Curb Allergies
Breast milk has antibodies that bind to bacteria in the baby's gut in the first days of life. In mice, maternal IgG in milk trained the infant immune system to tolerate harmless bacteria and food proteins instead of reacting to...
Teens Freeze When Overwhelmed, Not Out of Defiance
When teens freeze, avoid, or go quiet... their brain is overwhelmed. They're not trying to be oppositional.
Teach Critical Thinking, Curiosity, Empathy Over AI Expertise
What Does AI Actually Mean for My Kid? A Practical Guide to Future-Proofing for the Modern Parent The TL;DR for Busy Parents AI isn’t going to replace your child, but it will change how they learn and work. The goal isn't...
Stop Shaming Moms: Breastfeeding Isn't Universal
I’m a new dad. I’m the midst of witnessing the struggles my wife is dealing with breastfeeding. I will gladly take time out of my day to sh*t post about anyone shaming women who can’t breastfeed, because breastfeeding is not...
Kids Naturally Learn Risk Management Through Play
Yesterday I took my kids to play in my mom's backyard. There is a large open space with a ledge about 5 feet tall with rain water running underneath. My kids were immediately fascinated. They spent 10 minutes throwing acorns,...
Parenting's Quiet Moments Matter More Than Words
I don't think we talk enough about how some of the most important parenting happens in total silence and just staying in the room.
AI Simplifies Homeschooling and Spurs Flexible Work Growth
I agree with Jesse’s view that AI can make homeschooling much easier and more aligned with your family’s values. It could also lead to major growth in the one trend having real impact on the fertility rate: flexible, work from...
Kids Raised with Eight Languages Thrive Linguistically
The “forbidden experiment” — raising a child with no language exposure — is forbidden for very good reasons. But has anyone studied the opposite, what happens to children in extreme polyglot households? Like where they’re hearing 8 languages with equal regularity...
Psychologist’s Quick Trick to Calm Hyperactive Kids
A child psychologist trick: the fastest way to manage hyperactivity without forcing your child to “sit still”
Kids Sync Emotions: Parents' Mood Sets Whole Family
There is a phenomenon I experience almost daily with my three kids that I cannot fully explain but I know every parent of multiple children had noticed. Some mornings they are all needy at the same time. All three want...
Channel ADHD Impulsivity Into Smarter Decision‑Making
A child psychologist trick: how to turn ADHD kids impulsiveness into better decision-making - step by step
Accept, Understand, Guide: Raising Kids as Their Best Selves
I’ve raised 2 amazing young men. My parenting advice is this — your kids are who they are. Don’t try to change them, try to understand them. Then discourage them away from the bad versions of themselves, and encourage them...
Presence Matters More than Advice when Raising Adult Daughters
Helping your daughter transition into adulthood takes more than advice—it takes presence. 🎧 Listen now: https://t.co/c39rpq5rBg #Fatherhood #DadsWithDaughters https://t.co/ZQGVsMenAg
Uncelebrated Parents Fear Celebrating Their Children
I don't think we talk enough about how a parent who was never celebrated growing up can find it almost impossible to celebrate their child without it feeling like a threat.
Separation Anxiety Often Shows Up Without Tears
Separation anxiety doesn’t always look like tears. Sometimes it looks like refusal, stomachaches, irritability, or anger.
AI Empowers Homeschooling Parents to Personalize Early Education
Greatly enjoyed this conversation with @jessegenet on how she’s using AI to help homeschool 4 children under 5! Jesse is an early adopter of so many new tools that can empower homeschooling moms and dads to personalize education for their kids....
Teen Clinginess Often Signals Underlying Anxiety, Not Rebellion
Your teen's clinginess might be anxiety. They might be feeling... Insecure Unsure Self-conscious Judged They might need your proximity to feel safe.
Skin-to-Skin Contact Boosts Newborn Breastfeeding Success
Skin-to-skin after birth is one of the simplest, most powerful ways to support a newborn. The evidence shows it can help with: • Better breastfeeding success.
Give Kids Roots and Wings: 3 Creative Boosts
"There are only two lasting bequests we can hope to give our children. One is roots, the other, wings." - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe See my article with Anthony Brandt on 3 ways to help any kid...
Outdoor Walks Instantly Calm Fussy Babies
One of the best remedies for a fussy baby is stepping outside. I have done this hundreds of times and it works almost every single time. They go from screaming to quiet and looking around within seconds. The sudden change in...
Gentle ADHD Correction: Quick, Shame‑free Technique
A child psychologist trick: the fastest way to correct an ADHD child without triggering shame or anger
Neurodivergent Kids Struggle, Not Disrespect: Understand ADHD
I feel so deeply for our neurodivergent kids. They’re often so misunderstood. We see them as disrespectful or bad, when in reality they want to be good so desperately but their brain just struggles to control impulses, pay attention, handle...
Spring Break Reveals How Fast Childhood Slips Away
This spring break with my son felt different in a way I can’t quite shake. Time didn’t just pass, it pressed in on me. I found myself sitting in moments longer, watching him, listening harder, realizing how quickly he’s becoming...
Beyond Behavior Management: Building a Nervous System
Say it with me: I am not just managing behavior. I am building a nervous system.
Invisible Parenting Patterns Can Cause Childhood Trauma
Not all childhood trauma comes from abuse. Sometimes it grows quietly in everyday parenting patterns. When children feel unseen, constantly compared, or emotionally responsible for adults, it shapes how they see themselves and the world. Healthy parenting doesn’t mean perfection. It means awareness, connection,...
One Question Unlocks Kids' Unique Family Perspectives
There are certain questions that really unlock your kid. I asked each of mine this: “What’s something that makes our family different from other families?” Three kids. Three different answers. Three really connecting conversations.
Teen Procrastination Stems From Emotional, Not Time, Issues
Your teen’s procrastination isn’t just about poor time management... They're likely struggling with poor emotion management.
Turn Stubbornness Into Leadership with Guided Choices
“STUBBORN” KIDS MAY JUST NEED GUIDED LEADERSHIP. • Strong-willed = leadership traits. • Power struggles create resistance. • Offer structured choices. • Guide, don’t break. Share if helpful. #StrongWilledChild #ParentingHelp #LeadershipSkills #RaisingLeaders #ParentingGrowth
Stay Present: Parenting From a Distance Works
Even when you’re away, you can still show up in meaningful ways for your daughter. Here’s how https://t.co/ul8gmLgMr1 #Dads
Teens Lie Out of Fear of Disappointing Parents
When your teen lies... Maybe they fear letting you down. They value the relationship so much that they worry the truth will change how you see them.